First job

What is it, that people are so very attached to their first job and their first company?? Is it that very financial freedom brought about by this job?? Or the social acceptance ?? the first mutual respect?? the first appreciation by others?? All the reasons are true to some extent. While as students/unemployed, the dependency on others might not make look us worthy enough. Or society, which never does anything constructive, looks down upon any unemployed with contempt.. or more so, that the fact that they think us as a burden..

So, in every case, the even single thought of seperation is eluded, more so confounds us. Not anything wrong. But with the current Information based world, where challenges are aplenty, past memories only should add to our experience pool and emotions should be shunned away.

Sounds simple, doesnt it?? Well not really. The thought of a point existing outside the circle that we have drawn around us really scares the hell out of us.

So here are few pointers that everyone can follow, some borrowed out of my own experience

• Dont leak a single word of quitting, unless you are 100% sure.
• There is always a reason for you to quit, strong or weak.
• And dont make up reasons, as an excuse.
• Think for a zillion times, before you set the ball rolling. Remember, it gains a lot of mass, before halting
• Keep options wide open, this knife is sharp at both the ends.
• Even the slightest doubt, keep shut
• Discuss issues before you put down the paper. There are always room for improvement.
• And most important, the decision should be yours and not something tweaked around by others.

The first job, while it may present an happy view, remember, the world is too big to conquer in a single life time.